This is weird they say
"if you love someone set them free if they return their yours if they
don't they were never your own". What if someone sets you free and you
realize their worth after they have moved on or probably found someone who
gives them the love and respect you were once suppose to give. Not to be harsh
but how long should one wait for someone? I guess practically speaking
'Eternity' is plain simple stupid, who are we kidding in today's world who
would wait for one person forever.
One of my friends got married
to her high-school boyfriend who she had dated almost 6 years before they got
married. Like all other couples they also had their share of problems, however
over the years the problem increased to an extend that they lived under the
same roof not as a couple but just to show others. She did everything possible
to save her marriage, even counseling. Some how he always suspected that she is
dating someone, to make him believe that this is not true she went to an extend
that she tagged him along where ever she went so that he could witness what she
did, still nothing worked worked out. Finally after 9 years of fights and
domestic violence she gave up and moved out of the house and filed a divorce.
For 9 years this guy assaulted her mentally n physically. When I asked her if
she was insane to bare all this crap for so long, her reply amazed me, she said
she was simply in love with him. She eventually got a divorce and moved on in
life.
After a few years she a met
another guy who treats her like a princess, loves her takes care of her and now
the husband comes back and says he is sorry and what's her back in his life...
Is this really fair to her for what all he has put her trough does he even
deserve to stand in front of her. Sometimes I think people just take their
partners for granted and when they realize their worth its just to late. One
should always appreciate the person who loves you and give unconditional love
to them.
